Adult Videos – Five Things to Look For to Make Her Have a Great Orgasm!

Whenever you look at an adult or porno video look for five things in order to give herthe best orgasm ever! There’s too many that are just totally fake.

1. If the movie has too much sound and it dominates everything else then be sure that it is fake. Many times the producers add the sound track from canned noise they can purchase. If the actor’s mouth is open the whole film do you think that’s realistic? Even the “amateur” films are totally false these days.

2. If the film follows the old “cable tv sex” formula or format, of kissing the girl, fumbling with her breast, going down on her or swallowing him, and then they try five positions and then explode–pass on it. There’s much more to it than that. Several famous directors have said they’d love to make an mature film, if it didn’t cost them their career. They thought most films in this were really horrible. I totally agree. I can deal with no plot, amaterur acting, but at least give us some serious sex.

3. If the film starts with couples in the middle of having sex then you have lost the whole foreplay. Foreplay and imagination are what really makes the lovemaking worthwhile. Sometimes you’ll even see the same scenes again and again, repeated, in different parts of the movie. Tnat’s cheating!

4. If it doesn’t give much anticipation (remember the old song) then they’re losing 50% of the satisfaction you could have. For example, most Hollywood movies take a long time in having the lead actor look at the woman’s body and thinking how to approach her. That’s what we do in real life. In most of these mature films, the actors just go right to it with no introduction, no foreplay, and little anticipation.

I’ve seen a few good films where the actor was watching the woman through her bedroom window undressing, slowly – a piece at a time. Most mature films don’t show that anymore.

5. Finally, if the film doesn’t show the guy getting the woman off with more than one type of orgasm, then why even watch it? Women have at least 7 types of orgasms. Watching a fake guy get a fake woman off with one type of orgasm in different positions gets boring.

How Women Enjoy Eroticism Through Sex Stories

Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?

Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so much female erotica focuses on women’s bodies and sex between women.

No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body parts, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica because I imagine myself on the receiving end of fellatio or anal sex, for example.

Female erotica often includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women’s sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling ‘dirty’ or guilty about their sexual urges?

I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity without anyone being forced into anything against their will (not always but mostly).

I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so much out there I have read my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending pain. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.

It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to find sex stories for women that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder though… what else does anyone read this stuff for?

Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few women relate to her findings. This is because most women approach sex through their relationship with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their own sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have never discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.

I read Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was critical to female orgasm from masturbation. However, clitoral stimulation never seemed to help with my sexual arousal during sex with my partner. The fact is that even during female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.

Men have a fairly natural transition from masturbation to sex because they use images of naked women for arousal. Women do not use images of naked men during masturbation so it is more difficult for them to transfer their orgasm techniques including their use of sexual fantasies to sex with a partner.

An Adult Video That Should Be Made – How to Give Your Woman a Powerful Clitoral Orgasm Without Touch

Imagine yourself watching an adult video and you see the woman in the scene starting to shudder, shake, and then explode in convulsions. Yet she didn’t touch herself and neither did anyone else. How could that happen? It’s perhaps one of the most unusual but powerful ways to have an orgasm.

The brain is the biggest sex organ in the human body. Stimulate the brain and you’ll stimulate all of your sex organs. Here’s how it could happen.

Suppose in the movie that the lady is watching an other couple make love. The couple are unaware that they are being watched.

The lady soon starts to get into the scene herself and become really heated up. She sees what they are doing and wants to experience it herself.

She closes her eyes and imagines the guy kissing her ear, her lips, and her breasts. Then she imagines him licking her pussy. She becomes wet and her nipples get hard.

Then she starts to shake. As she convulses, her vaginal lips rub together. She imagines his tongue and his penis enter her. She starts to shake and convulse even more. There is more rubbing. All the action takes place in her mind but it is real nonetheless.

She works her inside muscles and gets it really working. The moisture drips from her honey pot. She shakes more and more! Both upper and lower lips furiously work at each other. She imagines the guy really rocking inside her.

She concentrates more and more. Just like inside tennis, she practice inside love making. She rehearses every smell, sound, touch, and motion. It becomes as real as anything could be.

The viewer sees this and perhaps she or he takes part in the internal stimulation as well. How far can they go without any touch? More and more practice, dreams, and success are rewarded in real life.

Soon, the watcher in the film has reached the point of no return. Her body has taken over and she no longer has conscious volition over her actions. She cannot stop even is she wants. her convulsions wrack her body and she collapses in a shuddering climax.

Sex Instructional Video

There are many people out there who are still virgins or are simply beginning to become sexually active. They do not want to learn from the so called “professionals” of the porn industry. They simply want to learn how to please their partner through a sex instructional video. Luckily, there are many great instructional videos on the basic sexual positions and how to preform during intercourse. However, there are very few people who know where to find these videos or how they can learn to preform correctly.

Well, one of the best sources for sex instructional videos is the internet. Not only are there a wide variety of videos out there, but many of them are highly educational in value. Best of all, you do not have to feel embarrassed about watching them, because the only person who will know is you. You can immediately shut it off if you feel that you are not ready, or rewind it if you did not understand a portion of it.

Another great place to find sex instructional videos is your local library. Many libraries put these in a restricted section, or may possibly place them in a hard to locate area. Also, not every library will carry these types of videos as they may think that they are smut or “dirty”. This is not true! They are instructing you on something that is a natural human desire and activity. You should not feel ashamed or confused about something that is only natural. If it is only natural, then there is no problem in learning how to do it correctly.

Yet another resource for finding these sex instructional videos would be your local adult book or video store. While many of these stores sell a large collection of pornographic videos, most of them also have a section where they will sell or rent a collection of sexual instructional videos. While they might not have the best selection, they will at least get you started in the right direction. Your local movie rental store may also have an adult section, however, it is highly unlikely that they will stock any instructional videos. This is simply because of how they would not move as fast as the pornographic content.

A final source would be to purchase the videos online through Amazon or eBay. Then you could have the instructional videos delivered to your door by the USPS, UPS or Fedex. However, unless you live at your own home or apartment, there may be some issues with privacy. While that is normally fine, it may not be the best idea with the videos you are getting. People might look at you as weird, or strange, but there is nothing wrong with this. It is simply one way to learn how to engage in sexual intercourse.

Sex Instructional Videos – Watch and Learn!

Although it’s evident that people nowadays are educated in the matter of sex, there are still those who need a little bit of help in that department. Whether you’re just starting out to become sexually active, or you’re in a relationship with a dwindling sex life, sex instructional videos may just be the thing you need. Sex can become quite a sensual and pleasurable activity, as long as you know exactly what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. Let sex instructional videos teach you a thing or two, and who knows? You might just discover as whole new side to you.

Sex instructional videos are great as it can help you spice up your bedroom routine with your lover. With different tips and techniques that you can learn from these videos, you’ll be able to become a better sexual partner. These videos can also help you let go of your inhibitions and your partner’s as well and teach you to be more confident in your own skin, no matter what body type you have. And because it’s highly recommended that you watch sex instructional videos with your lover, it can also possibly help strengthen the relationship.

You may be thinking, what makes sex instructional vids any different from porn videos? Though both videos will show people having sexual intercourse, you’ll actually learn something from instructional videos as it usually includes a narrative or a step by step guide. Whereas sex instructional videos aim to give you a better understanding of your body and how you can work it during sex, porn on the other hand will just show people having sex. If you think that sex is just like what you’ve seen on porn movies, you’ll be surprised to know that there is more to it than just the act itself. There’s foreplay, there’s romance and there are techniques that can help you make the whole act a mind blowing experience.

If you’re interested to know how you can your hands on sex instructional videos, you have a few choices. Depending on where you live and how your culture perceives sex, you might find it really easy or a bit challenging to acquire these videos. If you have an adult bookstore or a sex shop in your community, you can start your search there. You can also check stores that sell movies and DVDs and look for the adult section.

You can also look for online sites that sell sex instructional vids if you want to shop in the comforts of your own home. Although you’ll find a wide selection of different titles and types online, do take your time in choosing a video for you. Make sure that you check the production company and the description thoroughly if you don’t want to end up with cheap porn that was packaged as an instructional video. Look up reviews on which titles would be best suited for you. Don’t forget to ask your lover’s opinion on which titles to get so that you can come to a mutual agreement on what type of instructional video would best benefit you both.

XXX Adult Videos – A Review of the Nina Hartley Series

People often view xxx adult videos solely in the light of pornography. However, there is an emerging genre of xxx adult videos that falls under the class of sexual health. What makes these xxx adult videos so provocative is that in addition to their instructional qualities, they still maintain a highly charged, visually erotic, sexually stimulating atmosphere. Nina Hartley, porn star legend, has created a series of educational xxx adult videos that have house-wives everywhere singing her praises.

The fact is Nina Hartley is more than just an Adult film star. She is also a registered nurse who graduated magna cum laude from San Francisco State University. Needless to say, having made over 475 xxx adult movies gives her extensive knowledge of sexuality and sex education. Nina Hartley’s xxx adult videos are filled with captivating, imaginative and quality instructions.

Even better, these how-to guides are tantalizing and sensuously appealing, definitely arousing the libido of any couple seeking to enhance their sexual literacy. Nina Hartley’s series of xxx adult videos leaves no topic untouched. She has videos that cover topics from bondage, oral sex to lap dancing. These step-by-step instructional videos also include spanking, domination and swinging.

Nina Hartley’s xxx adult videos demonstrate advanced sexual techniques that can be explored by any man or woman. The videos are deliciously explicit and highly graphical in detail. She explains each technique and adds tips from her very own work experiences.

And that’s not all, the collection comes complete with dozens of erotic techniques to explore and experiment within the privacy of your own home. If you’re seeking a rewarding sex life, then Nina Hartley’s instructional xxx adult videos are packed with creative techniques that shows you how to have the best heart-pounding sex of your life. Join other couples on their journey to sexual literacy and explore steamy lovemaking techniques.

Sex Instructional Videos – Watch and Learn!

Although it’s evident that people nowadays are educated in the matter of sex, there are still those who need a little bit of help in that department. Whether you’re just starting out to become sexually active, or you’re in a relationship with a dwindling sex life, sex instructional videos may just be the thing you need. Sex can become quite a sensual and pleasurable activity, as long as you know exactly what you’re doing and why you’re doing it. Let sex instructional videos teach you a thing or two, and who knows? You might just discover as whole new side to you.

Sex instructional videos are great as it can help you spice up your bedroom routine with your lover. With different tips and techniques that you can learn from these videos, you’ll be able to become a better sexual partner. These videos can also help you let go of your inhibitions and your partner’s as well and teach you to be more confident in your own skin, no matter what body type you have. And because it’s highly recommended that you watch sex instructional videos with your lover, it can also possibly help strengthen the relationship.

You may be thinking, what makes sex instructional vids any different from porn videos? Though both videos will show people having sexual intercourse, you’ll actually learn something from instructional videos as it usually includes a narrative or a step by step guide. Whereas sex instructional videos aim to give you a better understanding of your body and how you can work it during sex, porn on the other hand will just show people having sex. If you think that sex is just like what you’ve seen on porn movies, you’ll be surprised to know that there is more to it than just the act itself. There’s foreplay, there’s romance and there are techniques that can help you make the whole act a mind blowing experience.

If you’re interested to know how you can your hands on sex instructional videos, you have a few choices. Depending on where you live and how your culture perceives sex, you might find it really easy or a bit challenging to acquire these videos. If you have an adult bookstore or a sex shop in your community, you can start your search there. You can also check stores that sell movies and DVDs and look for the adult section.

You can also look for online sites that sell sex instructional vids if you want to shop in the comforts of your own home. Although you’ll find a wide selection of different titles and types online, do take your time in choosing a video for you. Make sure that you check the production company and the description thoroughly if you don’t want to end up with cheap porn that was packaged as an instructional video. Look up reviews on which titles would be best suited for you. Don’t forget to ask your lover’s opinion on which titles to get so that you can come to a mutual agreement on what type of instructional video would best benefit you both.

Sex Stories – Tips For a Great Swinging Couples Party

You’re no stranger to block parties and birthdays, but now you’re looking to throw a party with a little more of an adult theme? For wild couples, swing parties can be fun for an anniversary or special birthday, or they can be great events for you to organize regularly. So what do you have to consider? As in all sex stories, what’s important are the fundamentals:

Where to Have your Party

Your own home is your best bet for your party as a new host. You might be tempted to hold a party outside in warm weather- lots of space, beautiful scenery and easy cleanup. But this isn’t wise unless you live VERY far away from your neighbors.
You may think a high fence or tall trees provide privacy, but even if your neighbors can’t see you, they can still hear you! This can result in a complaint and an unfortunate police visit.
Attempts to hide your party attendees’ sounds with loud music won’t work. Those bright colorful lights you’ll see aren’t festive decorations, but police cars out front.
All this considered, it’s best to keep the action inside when you start out. If you’re a real beginner, you’ll also want to attend a few swing parties before trying to host your own.
Sometimes people consider hosting as an easy way to make some money, but like most plans for fast money, it’s not as simple as it looks. It’s important to plan your parties well, and you’re not hosting a spectator sport. In order to get along with your guests and have a good party, you should be into swinging yourself.

The Guest List

In the beginning you should invite people you know from other swingers’ parties and groups. You’ll want to get more comfortable with hosting and more familiar with swinging before you let strangers show up.
Saturday night’s alright for swinging- people tend to be too tired to get into it at the end of the week on Friday. It’s a good idea to start promoting your party about a month in advance, and encourage people to bring people they actually know, but not friends of friends.
Make this rule very clear: couples only!! Single men often try to crash to take advantage of what they imagine is just one big orgy- that’s not what this is about. Single men or women can cause jealousies and complications. Limiting your guest list to couples allows everyone to relax and enjoy themselves.

What to Serve your Guests

It’s illegal to sell alcohol without a liquor license so you can’t charge for alcohol or you could be arrested. Instead, charge a fee per couple to attend and give away the food and liquor. $30 per couple is a standard charge, or you can charge a smaller fee and make it BYOB.
One of the first things you should establish is how many couples you can accommodate, depending on space, your comfort, and the energy you want your party to have. You can overbook by 50% because a lot of people may not show up.
Require that people RSVP by e-mail. This way, you’ll have the e-mails of all the people who are attending so you can send them the time, date and location of the party, along with rules and any fun details of a theme if you’re having one (these are common at swing parties.)

Speaking of Rules…

You should say up front whether you’ll allow smoking and any kind of cameras/documentation. These can make some guests uncomfortable, so they should know what they’re getting into.
Make it clear that the party is supposed to be fun and safe for everyone, and you won’t tolerate drunkenness or fighting.
Also, all activities will be completely consensual and no one will have to participate in anything they aren’t comfortable with.

Use these simple guidelines and you’ll have your guests coming again and again!

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Couples and Sexuality – Amp Up Your Sex Life This Summer by Cooling Down!

Would you like to beat the heat to enhance your sex life this summer? Extreme heat in the summer months can be a love repellant, especially when you feel hot and bothered or when the kids are up and around for more hours. This can create a challenge for you making love with your partner. Does this sound familiar? If so, read on for some solutions….

It’s a hot one this year! Keeping hydrated with clean water at all times is of the utmost importance for your health and your sex life, no matter what activities you do. Here are five fun and affordable ideas on keeping your love life hot while your body stays cool this summer:

Love tip 1: Pool party for two
Cool down in the water then heat things up! Float, relax, and break out the rafts and noodles; whatever floats your boat! Play some nice soft music while you dip. Taking a swim in your pool is a wonderful way to cool down and connect. Remember to flirt, hug, and smooch in the pool to amp things up. If you have a private pool, then skinny dipping can be very daring and arousing. Take your time- move slowly towards and away from each other playfully. Making love in the water is a fun way to share your passion while staying cool, especially at night when the temperature drops a bit. If you have kids, send them to Grandmas or your favorite sitter for the night!

Love tip 2: Romantic indoor picnic:
Buy or prepare some cool treats for the two of you- veggie platter, cold salads, fruits, cheeses or anything else chilled and easy that you enjoy eating together. Make some cold drinks such as spiked lemonade, Mojitos or Margaritas. Remember that alcohol dehydrates, so drink some extra water with your picnic dinner. Set up your picnic blanket in the middle of the room. Light some small candle jars around the room and set the mood. One or both of you can prepare the feast.

Feed each other slowly in-between kissing and teasing each other. Enjoy yourselves by candlelight. You can also enhance the mood with nature CDs such as ocean, forest, lake, or whatever you find most romantic. Tonight, make love in a different room, such as the living room on the picnic blanket. Focus on giving each other oral pleasure tonight, so each of you has a turn to lay back, relax, and stay cool while enjoying the bliss of orgasm!
Love tip 3: Romantic movie date:

This cool date can be at home or out. If you go out to the movies, find a very romantic movie out in the theaters. There is usually at least one each summer. Find a seat in the back of the theater. Hold hands! Steal a kiss or two. Whisper sweet something to each other about what you will do to each other later. Share some popcorn and chilled water while you enjoy the movie. Laugh, cry, and then go home to make love.

Love tip 4: Racy movie date:
If you are at home, rent or buy a racy movie. There is a company called Candida Royalle that offers some softer adult films with cheesy romantic story lines. One site you can get them at is Adam Eve. You can also find some harder core adult films on that site, depending on your tastes. You can have fun with these movies, giggle or reenact some of the scenes together. Try some different sexual positions tonight, such as woman on top facing away from the man. This allows for maximum air circulation and freedom to move in a way that pleases her. Don’t forget to reach around to stimulate her clitoris to send her into O-land! Remember to drink plenty of water, and top it off with ice cream or some fruit salad.

Love tip 5: Cool and Hot Shower Time:
Instead of taking a hot shower tonight, make the water lukewarm or on the cooler side. Bring some waterproof toys such as I rub my duckie or a waterproof vibrator. You can also use a movable shower head that has different speeds for some soapy fun! Spend time lathering each other up. Take your time and use a nice scented soap, such as mango, raspberry or lemon.

By the way, vibrators can be for him and her! Massage each others back and front areas, focusing first away from the genitals and then later to the genitals. To stimulate her, use circular motions with the vibrator around the labia and clitoris where most of the nerve endings are. Later, insert one or two fingers gently into her vaginal canal. She may be able to reach one, two, three or more orgasms this way in a row. To get him going, stimulate his penis with one hand and using the vibrator underneath his testicles. Ask for feedback to see how it feels. Some people like vibrators and some don’t. Experiment with different speeds. When you are done, rinse off and dry each other off and then fall asleep together. Turn on the ceiling fans for some extra breeze.

XXX Adult Videos – A Review of the Nina Hartley Series

People often view xxx adult videos solely in the light of pornography. However, there is an emerging genre of xxx adult videos that falls under the class of sexual health. What makes these xxx adult videos so provocative is that in addition to their instructional qualities, they still maintain a highly charged, visually erotic, sexually stimulating atmosphere. Nina Hartley, porn star legend, has created a series of educational xxx adult videos that have house-wives everywhere singing her praises.

The fact is Nina Hartley is more than just an Adult film star. She is also a registered nurse who graduated magna cum laude from San Francisco State University. Needless to say, having made over 475 xxx adult movies gives her extensive knowledge of sexuality and sex education. Nina Hartley’s xxx adult videos are filled with captivating, imaginative and quality instructions.

Even better, these how-to guides are tantalizing and sensuously appealing, definitely arousing the libido of any couple seeking to enhance their sexual literacy. Nina Hartley’s series of xxx adult videos leaves no topic untouched. She has videos that cover topics from bondage, oral sex to lap dancing. These step-by-step instructional videos also include spanking, domination and swinging.

Nina Hartley’s xxx adult videos demonstrate advanced sexual techniques that can be explored by any man or woman. The videos are deliciously explicit and highly graphical in detail. She explains each technique and adds tips from her very own work experiences.

And that’s not all, the collection comes complete with dozens of erotic techniques to explore and experiment within the privacy of your own home. If you’re seeking a rewarding sex life, then Nina Hartley’s instructional xxx adult videos are packed with creative techniques that shows you how to have the best heart-pounding sex of your life. Join other couples on their journey to sexual literacy and explore steamy lovemaking techniques.